Who was it once said?

"Its is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all" Well I think that's crap, and also its not true. Yes okay we all feel physical pain from time to time, we pull a muscle, we break a bone. And after a few weeks the pain from the broken bone is gone, the pain from the pulled muscle is gone, gone forever in fact.
But the emotional pain, coursed by love, this pain never ever heals. It makes no difference whether you lost a loved one, due to death, or due to someone else, or due to someone not following their heart. It makes no difference, we have to carry this burden of pain, with us forever.
Someone else also said, "time is a great healer" again that's crap as well, because time does not heal the emotional pain, does not make it any easier to live with. Because that pain will stay with us, in fact it will remain as potent to day, as it was yesterday, and will hurt us badly today and every day, in fact until our dying day.